Eventually through life you become aware
After a while, you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul and you learn that love does not mean get laid and company does not mean security, and you begin to learn ... that kisses are not contracts and presents are not promises and you begin to accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes open. And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans and futures have a way of falling down in a half. And after a while you learn that when it’s too much even the sunshine burns, so that you learn to plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. And you learn that you really can endure, that you really are strong, you really worth and you learn and learn ... With every goodbye you learn.
Over time you learn that being with someone just because he gives you a life of comfort, means that sooner or later you will want to return to your past.
Eventually you realize that only one who can love you with your flaws without trying to change, can give you all the happiness you desire.
Eventually you realize that if you have someone by your side just to not feel alone, to accompany your loneliness, inevitably you will end up not wanting to see him again.
With time you understand that true friends are numbered, and those who don’t fight for them sooner or later will be surrounded only for false friendships.
Over time you also learn that the words spoken in a moment of anger can hurt even more than a gun, and still hurting throughout life.
Over time you learn that everybody apologizes, but to forgive is only a virtue of great souls. Eventually you realize that although you are happy with your friends, someday you’ll cry for those who are gone.
Eventually you realize that every lived experience is unique to each person and that nothing ever goes away until it has taught us what we need to know.
Eventually you realize that in life there are neither rewards nor punishments only consequences, that rushing things or force them to happen will cause the end is not as expected.
Eventually you realize that actually the best wasn’t ever yet to come because the best is always happening right this moment
Over time you will see that although you are happy with those who are by your side, you will long for those have gone yesterday. And you learn there are 3 moments in life have no remedy which are: The opportunity you have left behind, the event you didn’t attend, and the insult already uttered.
Over time you will also learn the price of money ... and then you will realize that: You can buy a house but not a home, you can buy an expensive bed, but cannot sleep, you can buy a fancy watch, but cannot buy the time, you can buy a Book but not the Knowledge, you can buy a position, but not the Respect, you can buy medicines but not your health, you can buy blood, but not life, can pay for sex, but not for Love.
Over time you also learn that life is here and now, and no matter how many plans you have, there is no tomorrow and not yesterday.
Over time you will learn to forgive or apologize, say that you love, say that you miss, that you need others, that you want know how to be a good friend. Before a tomb, no longer has any meaning. But unfortunately, all this is learned only with time.